Motherhood is a life changing event. Expect your performance in school to lack relative to your peers, and be prepared to work two jobs at once. Forget about parties and friends, it's time to be responsible.
Because your time is now filled with feeding and changing your new bundle of joy, you will have a harder time getting and keeping a good paying job. This means that you will most likely have to work long hours in addition to caring for your child, which will reduce the amount of time you have to care for yourself.
After a while it is probable that you will begin to resent your child for your stunted career and social life. You will, over time, begin to treat your child like a mistake. Your child will grow up with a screwed up sense of self worth, and will be more likely to drop out of school, and be convicted of a crime by the time s/he is 18.
On the other hand, you could have a rich governor for a parent who will support you every step of the way, so she seems compassionate for her 2012 presidential run. In that case go for it!What does it take for a teenage girl to be a single mother?
why on earth would you want to be. sheesh goodbye freedom, goodbye going out with your friends, goodbye sleeping in, goodbye having any time to yourself, goodbye any money you had to spend on clothes, goodbye to your teenage years and proper dating, travelling, college, goodbye to a lot of your friends ( they wont be interested in hanging out with a girl who cant go out or shop or gossip about boys- you wont have time for them and they wont be interested in you anyway except that they know you will have sex with them).
hello to responsibility all day long and all night long, every single damn day over and over again for 18 years.why dont you try cooking 3 meals a day for yourself for 1 week and cleaning up after yourself, then do all your laundry, then change your bedding everyday about 3 times and wash it. if that is a little bit hard imagine doing 10 times that much and also doing it in the middle of the night.
It takes one dose of carelessness.
But it also takes patience, an overflowing bank account, and the knowledge that your social life is going to go downhill for the moment.
Consider adoption. There are people who can't have kids and will do everything in their power to make sure that baby grows up happy and stable.
well it takes sex. and lots of money and time. and im talking time.
there is nothing com paired to a single woman raising a child.
because your going to be the only parent and all the work will be
on you. and you will loose sleep when the baby is sick. you should
go and baby sit a new born child for a couple days. and then go baby
set a 17 month old for a couple days. and you your self jump up
ever time they need tobe changed and need something you would change your mind. and im a man and im telling you a mothers job
is never done and they work twice as hard as a man and need a metal
to answer the ?:
it takes a lot of patience, understanding, love, moral support, inner strength, and lots of will power. expect the unexpected from both the baby and people around you. motherhood is a terrifying time for a teen but can also be filled with joy and fun as well. just be prepared.
NOW FOR ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE WHO ANSWERED!:
i understand that most of the time a girl can make a mistake and wind up pregnant. but that doesn't mean she is a bad person or will make a bad mother. she has options. I WAS A VICTIM OF RAPE. and i decided to keep my child. hes father is in jail now. i love my child more than anything and he is my world. he was born when i was 16. i was able to raise him to be a good child and finish high school and am now taking collage courses online. so its possible. hard. but possible. SO ALL I ASK IS THAT YU PEOPLE THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY BEFORE YOU SAY IT. ignorance isn't bliss when other people suffer from your advice.
ummm... its hard to be a single teen momma. so dont do it!! but if u already have see if ur parents can help out or friends or set her/him up for adoption and meat the couple who are taking him/her in. they will prolly let u be a part of his/her life aswell
Lots and lots of stupidity combined with friends and family who want to help the girl ruin her life.
Carelessness
It takes one bad decision.
unprotected sex
lots of stupidity
it will hard, VERY HARD... but u gotta be strong and get through for the sake of ur baby.
ur useless
a penis. :)
Alot of hard work!!!!
a lot more courage and strenght than i have.
drunk sex
um sex? and the babys dad to leave her
ummm sex.....which leads to a baby...making that teenager a mother....yup
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